Where are they?

     There are a lot of ways to meet men but really I found it very difficult once I was out of school.  I was not one to be part of communal activities.  Remember I was a shy shy shy person.  I met my husband through a blind date.  It was a set up by a lady at work that told me she found a perfect match for me.  She said she met him at a church.  He had taken his mother to bingo nite.  I thought that was a sign of a very nice man. Linda gave me his phone number and said he was expecting my call.  I found out later that was not true.  She just gave me his number and to his surprise a girl called him up out of the blue to set up a date.  I was very embarrassed when I found that out.  I think a lot of people meet through blind dates, or at work or school. Once you become a 50+ single or a senior single its oh so hard to figure out how to meet the right man for you.  In these modern times an ideal way to do it is to look on dating sites on the computer. For one thing you know they are looking and want to date. Its still a gamble but most of the time you at least get to see what they look like. Generally you post pictures of yourself on the site.  Its not hard to do this, first graders get on the computer now a days.