Did anybody like me?

     So it was difficult for me to keep anyone interested in dating me since I wanted to do it later on down the line.  Well this is how it worked. I put on my profile message and waited for response's.  I was afraid of rejection so I didn't listen to men and leave messages for the ones I like, to shy for that. I waited to hear messages from guys that were interested in my profile.  I got several responses, some were positive, some were negative.  I think some of the worst were men that were nasty and said I was just a gold digger. Obviously those men we not at all what I was looking for. I then messaged those who seemed nice and after messaging for a while I eventually talked to some on the service's phone system.  You usually got about 20 or 30 minutes to talk on their lines.  One of the back falls of this system is that you don't know what the person your talking to looks like.  That's the plus on computer dating sites, photo's. One of questions I asked to get an idea was to ask, "if you compared yourself to a well known actor, who would it be"?