Here's what I did

     After listening to every single bio from my chosen age group I finally decided to become a member and put in a bio ad of my own.  I put in female, age 40 even though I was age 50 (I looked in my 30's so I could pull it off).  First I went into the females category and listened to what the other women were saying in their bios.  Most of them were almost exactly the same "hi, my name is Kathy, I'm single,  brunette, 40 years old, and I love going to the movies and taking long walks on the beach".  " I'm looking for a man that is honest and loves to travel".  Really that's what most of them would say.  So I took probably 2 weeks to compose the perfect bio.  Then I had to cut it down because you only have say 60 or so seconds to say what you want to say.  It took a while because I think I wrote about 20 minutes worth of bio.  I spent so much time composing it, I still remember it today. 

     My name is Pat. I'm blonde, 5'1" and I'm attractive.  I am looking for a man that is down to earth who is intelligent and is of good moral character.  I also require a non-smoker and only a social drinker. I like to travel, it would be fun to visit lots of exciting places in the world.  What I am looking for are champagne kisses and caviar dreams, so, are you the one?

     That's the jist of what I wrote.  Since I am shy I did not go to men that sounded good to me and leave them a message.  The only thing I did was put out my bio and wait for responses.  Getting on it at all was a biggie for me.